BLNC Facets: Sam Lim

blncmag
Jul 8
2 min read

BLNC Facets : Pride in Everyday

Sam Lim

CEBU

What is everyday life like as a queer person on your side of the country?

SL: I move through the world like I design — sometimes loud, sometimes soft, but always with intention.

As a queer Filipino living in Cebu, I’ve learned to read every space like a pattern: where to cut, where to fold, where to let myself flow. Some days I shrink to fit in. Other days I take up space like a sparkly ball gown.

I navigate by creating — turning queerness into cloth, silence into silhouette. It’s not always easy, but every look I make is a reminder: I exist, I resist, and I am not alone.

Living as a queer designer in Cebu means learning how to exist in a world that doesn’t always know what to do with you. There’s pressure to stay quiet, to act “normal,” to make yourself smaller — but I’ve found ways to express who I am through design, styling, and the clothes I create.

My queerness shows up in my work, especially in my graduate collection. It wasn’t just about fashion — it was a way for me to explore my identity, question norms, and show softness as something powerful. Every piece I make is a part of that story.

It’s not always easy, but I’ve learned how to move with intention. I take up space in my own way, even if it’s quiet.

What would you like Filipinos to know about the LGBTQIA+ community where you are?

SL: Queer people in Cebu are not just trying to be seen — we’re already creating, building, and showing up. Even with limited resources, we’re styling shoots, throwing ballroom events, and designing pieces that reflect who we are.

We do the work even when no one’s clapping. We turn scraps into beauty. We show up with heart, whether it’s in pageants, small gigs, or studio corners. There’s so much talent and truth here — and we’re not waiting for anyone to validate it.